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Honestly, whenever I come back to check on you guys, I see the same damn thing every single time.
There's always some ridiculous, childish, silly, and insignificant drama going on. Whether it's fighting in chat, fighting in SD, fighting in OT, fighting in MT, whining about power abuse and playing Che Guevara with the moderators, it's always the same circle-jerk -- to put it quite frankly, a bunch of socially-challenged nerdy teenagers reinforcing each other's immature ideas of community. And every time it happens, some moderator with a stick up his/her arse comes and swings the ban hammer a few times to make sure they piss off all the kids nice and good. It's the same thing as bad parenting. You don't smack your kids, you teach them. Likewise, the people who cause this sort of drama need to know WHY, and I mean EXACTLY WHY, they shouldn't be doing it, and they need to see exactly how destructive it is to the community. Then, if they still don't learn, you swing the ban hammer. Maybe this is already going on, but it's quite clear that the staff here isn't doing a good enough job.
I was here as a kid, since I was 13, and believe me I stirred up my fair share of childish drama. I got banned for it like, 5 times? The message here is not that Hive shouldn't be for kids; it's a great place for kids, but we really need to let the adults run the show.
Although I've been out of the loop for a while, I don't think I'm too far off in saying that a lot of the staff members here have not yet had the real life experience required to manage a community like this. It is also quite clear that Ralle has very little hold if any over the community. I'm not saying he's a bad webmaster, but real life means you can't always be keeping track of a bunch of kiddies on the internet.
Back in my day, people complained about Wolverabid's absence, and I joined them because I trusted that he was a good admin. Now I know why. He was mature, caring, patient, firm, and responsible, and he was like a father to this community.
I propose a series of intensive video chat skype interviews for all prospective staff members. I know that when I was much younger and looking at a spot as Terrain Moderator, all I really cared about was the power and importance that the rank would get me. Nobody knew who the hell I was as a person, and I think if Ralle had seen my face or talked to me in person for even a minute, he'd have been like NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOPE!!!
So let's learn from our mistakes, and choose more responsible staff members who know how to deal with children, because things really do seem to have gotten out of hand lately. No more "I'm more important than you are and don't have to take your crap" bans, no more make-believe power-structure masturbation, and no more downright stupid authoritative practices.
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Edit: After reading up a bit more on what's been going on, I understand that Ralle is already doing a very good job working through this situation. However, we cannot leave it up to him. Yes, he's the webmaster; yes, it's his job. As community members, it's our job too. No more of this "hive's dying" crap, because it is complete and total sh*t and it's destructive to the community. Whining is just going to prolong the issues here. Hive needs reform, so let's start working on it from the ground up, so hopefully we can meet Ralle and the rest of the administrators somewhere in the middle. That's the quickest and best way to work through this bullsh*t and ensure the survival of our beloved site. I did a lot of growing up here and believe me I'm not letting this place die without a heartfelt effort.
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I shouldn't have to remind you not to post in this thread unless you have a well-thought-out response to my argument.
THIS IS NOT A THREAD TO NOMINATE PEOPLE FOR STAFF POSITIONS.
There's always some ridiculous, childish, silly, and insignificant drama going on. Whether it's fighting in chat, fighting in SD, fighting in OT, fighting in MT, whining about power abuse and playing Che Guevara with the moderators, it's always the same circle-jerk -- to put it quite frankly, a bunch of socially-challenged nerdy teenagers reinforcing each other's immature ideas of community. And every time it happens, some moderator with a stick up his/her arse comes and swings the ban hammer a few times to make sure they piss off all the kids nice and good. It's the same thing as bad parenting. You don't smack your kids, you teach them. Likewise, the people who cause this sort of drama need to know WHY, and I mean EXACTLY WHY, they shouldn't be doing it, and they need to see exactly how destructive it is to the community. Then, if they still don't learn, you swing the ban hammer. Maybe this is already going on, but it's quite clear that the staff here isn't doing a good enough job.
I was here as a kid, since I was 13, and believe me I stirred up my fair share of childish drama. I got banned for it like, 5 times? The message here is not that Hive shouldn't be for kids; it's a great place for kids, but we really need to let the adults run the show.
Although I've been out of the loop for a while, I don't think I'm too far off in saying that a lot of the staff members here have not yet had the real life experience required to manage a community like this. It is also quite clear that Ralle has very little hold if any over the community. I'm not saying he's a bad webmaster, but real life means you can't always be keeping track of a bunch of kiddies on the internet.
Back in my day, people complained about Wolverabid's absence, and I joined them because I trusted that he was a good admin. Now I know why. He was mature, caring, patient, firm, and responsible, and he was like a father to this community.
I propose a series of intensive video chat skype interviews for all prospective staff members. I know that when I was much younger and looking at a spot as Terrain Moderator, all I really cared about was the power and importance that the rank would get me. Nobody knew who the hell I was as a person, and I think if Ralle had seen my face or talked to me in person for even a minute, he'd have been like NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOPE!!!
So let's learn from our mistakes, and choose more responsible staff members who know how to deal with children, because things really do seem to have gotten out of hand lately. No more "I'm more important than you are and don't have to take your crap" bans, no more make-believe power-structure masturbation, and no more downright stupid authoritative practices.
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Edit: After reading up a bit more on what's been going on, I understand that Ralle is already doing a very good job working through this situation. However, we cannot leave it up to him. Yes, he's the webmaster; yes, it's his job. As community members, it's our job too. No more of this "hive's dying" crap, because it is complete and total sh*t and it's destructive to the community. Whining is just going to prolong the issues here. Hive needs reform, so let's start working on it from the ground up, so hopefully we can meet Ralle and the rest of the administrators somewhere in the middle. That's the quickest and best way to work through this bullsh*t and ensure the survival of our beloved site. I did a lot of growing up here and believe me I'm not letting this place die without a heartfelt effort.
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I shouldn't have to remind you not to post in this thread unless you have a well-thought-out response to my argument.
THIS IS NOT A THREAD TO NOMINATE PEOPLE FOR STAFF POSITIONS.
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