All my life elders, the family gave me advises(for I have social deficit) such as "go out there,express your opinion,this way you will be able to socialise"But what they forgot to tell me was that every single human had the same social understanding known as "common sense".We have the illusion of different opinion. And when someone "autistic" like me tries to fit in by expressing his opinion I always end up disappointed, humiliated I felt dumber and dumber everytime I expressed my thoughts. So decided to put a mask on and join the "common sense", I become a clone. Why should I follow the discoveries of Plato or Aristotle, why should I express the same opinions that humans express from the ancient times to now? Is it only me, but I feel like I'm being programmed. I don't believe in a flat earth, but then the question is not why should I but why shouldn't I believe in a flat earth. I know why I believe in round earth, not because of books or people told me so, but because I tried to convince myself that its round, I don't use math or anything else, it was the sun that proved that the earth is round because it never changed its size. I agree with everyone's opinion, you know why? Because I knew about the existence of that opinion because opinions are not something that you can "create" but its something that will help you to adapt to society. I never called anyone, anyone dumb or ignorant or stupid or brainwashed or, uneducated for expressing their opinion, because I did my homework before my collision with their opinion. Whats the point of me expressing my opinion if it sounds too abstract and irrational and against all laws of common sense.Arent the common sense opinions, thoughts the ones that limit our creativity. I think creativity is about discovery, but when we literally know everything about everything we have discovered, then another discovery could be like an enemy of the current understanding of everything, it's like homosexuality, heterosexuality, transsexuality, and many other sexualities. People lack understanding for abstract thinking when abstract opinion becomes a norm it'snot abstract anymore.
Today I expressed my opinion(for the first time in many years) in the company of friends, and what happened is that I lost my friends for expressing my opinion(imagine that). Just once to taste the power of having an opinion, and you end up being disowned. My opinion was about selective breeding\Selectivity, I stated that ugly people choose aesthetically pleasing partners, and this selectivity is limited as our opinions because we used as young to watch tv commercials that depict certain human characteristics which were considered as aesthetically perfect. One of them jumped at me and said that I'm ignorant and that looks don't matter there are other aspects that matter too, for which he is right but looks matter the most. I used to believe that personality is what matters the most in order for you to find the ONE. Why should I be ignorant when was like him I used to state the same thing that he stated, I used the same words, same sentences, I was like listening to the older ME. I don't insult him or anyone else once, yet they were like a pack of wolves ready to devour me. Imagine that!
He continued "Why are you forcing your opinion upon us",no I wasn't, I just wanted to fit in not make war, not argue, I just wanted friends, someone who can listen, I don't want you to understand, I just want to be heard, I don't parade with what I've said, I don't want to change your opinion,opinion is not used to be forced but be expressed. I have faith in humanity so I forgive him for I have no right to tell who is wrong and who is right. This guy doesn't want to listen to me, not because of my opinion but because he cared more about having sex with all the girls in the room(he told me so). I have faith in humanity, I will till I die.
So my opinion was that ugly people search for beautiful people, and he told me that that's not right and that ugly person can be with ugly people. Yes but that doesn't mean that ugly people don't dream of a better life, beautiful partner and so on. They just ended with this person because they had no other choice, and when plan A(Attractiveness) don't work plan B(Money) will work if not plan C(Personality), and he said": others chouse the opposite, It depends on the person".Ok neutral position, I like this position it makes you invulnerable because whatever I was about to say was going to make me sound like a full retard. I was in the past he was using common sense in stealth mode, I lost the debate because the neutral position is the position of the "Libra".The neutral position is the position that can fool anyone that he is a retard, or that he is wrong, its the most powerful philosophical weapon,but in the matter of fact neutral position is the one that fools the brain that everything is just black and white, and you are some kind of GOD or just simply the BLUE PILL philosophy. But at the end of the day, I was left unconvinced.
But mostly I still wonder why do people get angry when one expresses the opinion?
Is it because they don't fully understand their opinion
Because they don't like to hear things that are against their beliefs
They do it because of childhood trauma
Because they want to
Because they think that you might be hostile, because of the certain ways you act.
And if someone can convince me that my opinion is wrong to feel free.
Today I expressed my opinion(for the first time in many years) in the company of friends, and what happened is that I lost my friends for expressing my opinion(imagine that). Just once to taste the power of having an opinion, and you end up being disowned. My opinion was about selective breeding\Selectivity, I stated that ugly people choose aesthetically pleasing partners, and this selectivity is limited as our opinions because we used as young to watch tv commercials that depict certain human characteristics which were considered as aesthetically perfect. One of them jumped at me and said that I'm ignorant and that looks don't matter there are other aspects that matter too, for which he is right but looks matter the most. I used to believe that personality is what matters the most in order for you to find the ONE. Why should I be ignorant when was like him I used to state the same thing that he stated, I used the same words, same sentences, I was like listening to the older ME. I don't insult him or anyone else once, yet they were like a pack of wolves ready to devour me. Imagine that!
He continued "Why are you forcing your opinion upon us",no I wasn't, I just wanted to fit in not make war, not argue, I just wanted friends, someone who can listen, I don't want you to understand, I just want to be heard, I don't parade with what I've said, I don't want to change your opinion,opinion is not used to be forced but be expressed. I have faith in humanity so I forgive him for I have no right to tell who is wrong and who is right. This guy doesn't want to listen to me, not because of my opinion but because he cared more about having sex with all the girls in the room(he told me so). I have faith in humanity, I will till I die.
So my opinion was that ugly people search for beautiful people, and he told me that that's not right and that ugly person can be with ugly people. Yes but that doesn't mean that ugly people don't dream of a better life, beautiful partner and so on. They just ended with this person because they had no other choice, and when plan A(Attractiveness) don't work plan B(Money) will work if not plan C(Personality), and he said": others chouse the opposite, It depends on the person".Ok neutral position, I like this position it makes you invulnerable because whatever I was about to say was going to make me sound like a full retard. I was in the past he was using common sense in stealth mode, I lost the debate because the neutral position is the position of the "Libra".The neutral position is the position that can fool anyone that he is a retard, or that he is wrong, its the most powerful philosophical weapon,but in the matter of fact neutral position is the one that fools the brain that everything is just black and white, and you are some kind of GOD or just simply the BLUE PILL philosophy. But at the end of the day, I was left unconvinced.
But mostly I still wonder why do people get angry when one expresses the opinion?
Is it because they don't fully understand their opinion
Because they don't like to hear things that are against their beliefs
They do it because of childhood trauma
Because they want to
Because they think that you might be hostile, because of the certain ways you act.
And if someone can convince me that my opinion is wrong to feel free.