loved or loving?

[Rheiko]

Which is better? with someone you loved or be with someone who loves you?
just want to know your opinion :3

 

[Bernkastel]

Neither sound very good to be honest, assuming that in the second option you don't love the person.

 

[marko9]

Love and be loved, that's the only way it will work.

 

[Magtheridon96]

I don't love people and people don't love me.

They're terrible.

 

[trolman]

Love is bad, stay away from it kids!

 

[StoPCampinGn00b]

Why is it all negative, people don't like giving hugs? D:

 

[Hakeem]

Hugs aren't love, just affection.

 

[StoPCampinGn00b]

Makes sense, but the point of my post aren't about hugs.

 

[Hakeem]

I get the strong impression most relationships just end in heartache. Don't see the point of trying myself unless you find someone who seems like that one in a million.

 

[Daffa]

Neither sound very good to be honest, assuming that in the second option you don't love the person.

Or the reversal.

Love and be loved, that's the only way it will work.

Yep, that's how it works.

I don't love people and people don't love me.

Well, at least you have friends.

Which is better? with someone you loved or be with someone who loves you?
just want to know your opinion :3

Well, my old opinion is that "with someone you loved" option.
But now, my fall in love has 2 times brings my downfall in the past, so I would say I won't choose both option coz both can give me shits.

 

[Direfury]

Love means trust. Trust is always broken. That only leaves you hurt, alone and confused.

It isn't worth it.

 

[Magtheridon96]

It's never worth it.

Maybe if you find that one-in-a-million person that Hakeem mentioned, it might be worth trying, but your focus shouldn't really be on trying to find the person, that could be a total waste of time. Just let shit happen. If it doesn't happen, so what? It's your life, do whatever the fuck you want. You don't need a companion, it's just an added bonus. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

 

[Daffa]

Love means trust. Trust is always broken. That only leaves you hurt, alone and confused.

It isn't worth it.

Yep, it turns out to be a total waste of time. I wonder why many of my friends still after the person they love. Geez, they never actually learned anything.

It's never worth it.

your focus shouldn't really be on trying to find the person, that could be a total waste of time. Just let shit happen.

yeah, it's just a life-waster.

If it doesn't happen, so what? It's your life, do whatever the fuck you want. You don't need a companion, it's just an added bonus. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

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[Kitabatake]

Fun fact: ancient finns considered love to be a mental illness and believed in a god of cruelty, misfortune and love.

This thread seems to share the sentiment.

 

[trolman]

This thread is a circlejerk for cold bitter men.

 

[Ironside]

To be loved is always better.
If you love and they don't love you = bad
If they love and you don't love = still a decent feeling
And still, if they love you, it still might be possible that you like them too.
While in the opposite, you may never know, since not everyone asks everyone they love for their feelings.

By my logic at least.

 

[Daffa]

Ironside

While in the opposite, you may never know, since not everyone asks everyone they love for their feelings.

unless you can make them spoil that themselves by accident somehow.