How old is she ? If she's under 17 minimum and had sex with that guy than forget about her cause she's a slot and you're better of without. And as the old saying goes: "There is plenty of fish in the seas"
If she's a slot, where's the machine?
MAN YOU ARE BONED
this is why you keep AWESOME MILITARY DWARVES WHO ARE IMMUNE TO SADNESS around.
Didn't work.
I had a military of like 30 dabbling somethings because I had a siege every other week (Human siege... ok, what did I do to piss you off? Elven siege... damn that must be because of those wooden baskets
you sold me, hypocrites... DWARVEN SIEGE HOLY SHIT - Didn't help that I was king of the realm)
It didn't help that I had a military of 30+, that guy was something like Urtist McNorris or shit, he had legendary wrestling, bone setting, surgery, swordsdwarfship, archery, hammer-skills, and just looted the military guys I sent after him.
He got killed by a kitten that lacked half a lung and three limbs...
He was the friend of the entire hospital and of ALL the people who were once injured, which started a tantrum spiral and offed ~80 dwarves.
One dwarfwoman gave birth while severing the hand off of my human diplomat, and crap, I have to prepare for an incoming human siege,
again
I wrote 3k words for NaNo today seeing that I've nothing to do. They're looking over my produce now, so no work until further notice.