Friendship Sucks

TheLordOfChaos201 · Jun 20, 2016

Hey... it's me the Lord Of Chaos :goblin_yeah:

Anyway, I was considering friendship as a curse. I was happy for the last couple of months not receiving any word from my friends, then suddenly out of the blue I get invited over have a blast :goblin_boom:

and now I'm back home. Now that I've experienced the joy of friendship, I am super depressed to just chill at home. :goblin_cry:

Which brings me to the question:

Is friendship a curse?

What do you guys think, any similar experiences?

Zwiebelchen · Jun 20, 2016

Oh look, it's a LordOfChaos thread again.

Chaosy · Jun 20, 2016

No.

You can close the thread now.

Celaquil · Jun 20, 2016

Guys, simply because it's him and his phrasing of the question, doesn't mean the question is necessarily a bad one.

I would say that no, friendships are not curses. But it is all dependent on the person who experiences it.
As social animals we crave the company of others, everyone in varying degree though, this is generally
categorised into two main categories: Introverts and extroverts. In theory an extrovert is a person that
can't be alone, who hates it, and always needs to be in the company of others, while an introvert is a
person that hates being in the company of others and prefers being alone all the time.

Obviously, very few of us are on either utmost end of this scale, most people are somewhere in-between.
But how do you know which of the two you mainly belong to? One way I've been thought to think of it is
like a battery: Do you feel like you "recharge" by being alone, or by being with others?

Anyway, funny notions on introvert-/extrovert-ism aside, I think which you are is somewhat telling
of how you view friendships. Some treasure them very deeply, while others think of them more casually,
but most people don't consider friendships a bad thing. As long as you can tailor the friendship to your
preferences.

TheLordOfChaos201 said:
Now that I've experienced the joy of friendship, I am super depressed to just chill at home.

Don't fret, feeling depressed is a natural state of being a human, it doesn't mean friendships are curses, it means you enjoy them.

I would advice you to not have such a bleak outlook on everything in life, but I don't think you'd listen.

TheLordOfChaos201 · Jun 20, 2016

Keiji said:
I would advice you to not have such a bleak outlook on everything in life, but I don't think you'd listen.

How can I remain positive when everyone treats me so poorly simply for being me?
I don't understand this animosity towards me, what did i do? What can I do to avert it... what makes people so offensive?

I guess the only thing I can do is kill them all.

>>>

Friendship is a curse, why should I visit them if the feeling of their kindness and love leaves me feeling hollow and hurting.
If I never knew them I would never know what I am missing and therefore never feel this pain.
I would be happy with my solace and never regret my loneliness.

Now I feel affronted by my freedom to be without them

Celaquil · Jun 20, 2016

It isn't animosity, it's based on observations made by what kind of questions you ask and what kind of threads you post.

You generally have a very morbid and stubborn attitude, and what's more, you are easily offended.
Because of these qualities, I predicted you wouldn't listen, hence why I commented as I did.

This is also mostly why other people generally comment like the posts above mine to your threads.

TheLordOfChaos201 said:
Friendship is a curse

So, we have now changed the subject of the thread from being "Is friendship a curse?" to "friendship is a curse!"
I don't know how old you are or how schooled you are, but you certainly do have some extreme opinions that are
generally baseless, not based on facts, and seem to be completely, onerously, dictated by your own emotions.

TheLordOfChaos201 · Jun 20, 2016

Keiji said:
onerously, dictated by your own emotions.

I agree, it is a fact based on my own opinion. What I have to say or think on the matter is not as important as what, others such as your self, have to say. My question is simply, what are your conclusions to the matter, as I am looking for insight rather then objection or refrain.

Zwiebelchen · Jun 21, 2016

Keiji said:
Guys, simply because it's him and his phrasing of the question, doesn't mean the question is necessarily a bad one.

It is a bad question. Anyone with a functional brain would immediately disregard the question of "is friendship a curse?" with a clear "no".

Celaquil · Jun 21, 2016

It really isn't that black and white, though.

Rheiko · Jun 21, 2016

Seems LordOfChaos loves his opinions rather than facts. ~

blancfaye7 · Jun 21, 2016

>Happy because no friends
>Invited
>Yey
>Went back home
>Becomes sad
>Friendship is a curse

You're still but a child. There are completely other factors that will deny that line of thinking, because what you really think is just nearly 1% of REAL factors for you to be thankful that you have them.

fladdermasken · Jun 21, 2016

Zwiebelchen said:
It is a bad question. Anyone with a functional brain would immediately disregard the question of "is friendship a curse?" with a clear "no".

It's always nice and easy to Nope the hell out of everything, but if it's cut that clearly it should be a piece of cake to construct an argument for it. Anyone can be a blockage in a discussion.

TheLordOfChaos201 · Jun 21, 2016

I'm 25...stop saying I'm young and don't understand friendship!

thanks for the comments though. oh I designed a program to feel less unhappy... it doesn't work for me but maybe it will for someone else

www.hiveworkshop.com/pastebin/06041a9abc954210508cb6a99739b00a6203/

Shar Dundred · Jun 21, 2016

TheLordOfChaos201 said:
I'm 25...stop saying I'm young and don't understand friendship!h

Huh... On Hive 1 you claimed to be 19....
Seriously, everyone knows by now that you're nothing but a liar looking for attention.
So, do everyone a favor and stop trying.

TheLordOfChaos201 · Jun 21, 2016

I work on a construction site as a director

what 19 year old does that!

Shar Dundred · Jun 21, 2016

TheLordOfChaos201 said:
I work on a construction site as a director

You don't do jackshit.

Chaosy · Jun 21, 2016

I want to rep that post too badly, but I need to rep 5 others first t.t

Archimmonde · Jun 21, 2016

Friendship is bad........ your lonelines is what fullfill your soul

TheLordOfChaos201 · Jun 21, 2016

you'll are just haters

Shar Dundred · Jun 21, 2016

Yes, I admit.
I hate liars.

Archimmonde · Jun 21, 2016

TheLordOfChaos201 said:
you'll are just haters

I hate myself really but really really really. If I hate myself this much there is no word to tell how much I hate you

Chaosy · Jun 21, 2016

And bad grammar.

Shar Dundred · Jun 21, 2016

Chaosy said:
And bad grammar.

Yeah, that too.

TheLordOfChaos201 · Jun 21, 2016

v-v

I hate you

fladdermasken · Jun 22, 2016

BITCHES DON'T KNOW SHIT ABOUT FOLLOWING TOPICS.

Jesus Christ, you guys have the shittiest forum kung-fu ever. First and only warning. GTFO and take it to the chatroom. I'm having a terrible day and I will take it out on you guys.

Hail Satan.

Rheiko · Jun 22, 2016

I laughed at this thread, literally.

Edge45 · Jun 22, 2016

Indeed

maddeem · Jun 22, 2016

He's either a troll or he is not.

I honestly can't decide which one is worse.

fladdermasken · Jun 22, 2016

You guys are so not invited for Christmas.

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