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So, just out of curiosity, I decided to perform a google search to see what people thought about human relations and how to properly relate to others. Just about everything that came out seemed to be stereotypical bs >.> (mainly from books, discussions were comments on what was stated).
I can only ask myself, "does anyone really believe this stuff???"
Sure, media continues to talk about these precise same things, random talk talks about it, and etc... I always viewed all of these things and being humorous, poking fun at the various aspects of life from an earlier era that just seem absolutely crazy in the modern world.
Really, all I can say to all of this trifle is that the best way to relate to another person is to look at something from their point of view. This includes adjusting what you might think if you had lived through your life as that person (the hardships, gender, age, circumstances, and etc...). Really, figuring out those things can be one of the joys to human relations. When I see manuals about friends being formed like this, families working like that, guys liking this, girls liking this; it's almost enough to make me vomit.
So... what do you all think? Do manuals work or is the entire world crazy.
Furthermore, it'd be nice hearing the experiences of others in human relations.
One thing that I always say for every aspect of life, from music to literature to movies to even relationships, is that the two hardest parts are the beginning and the end. So talk about how a conversation started up that led to friendship etc and talk about, if it applies, it ended ; ).
Perhaps from this discussion we can determine the faults in regards to human relations that seem inherent in so many cultures and where they came from.
I can only ask myself, "does anyone really believe this stuff???"
Sure, media continues to talk about these precise same things, random talk talks about it, and etc... I always viewed all of these things and being humorous, poking fun at the various aspects of life from an earlier era that just seem absolutely crazy in the modern world.
Really, all I can say to all of this trifle is that the best way to relate to another person is to look at something from their point of view. This includes adjusting what you might think if you had lived through your life as that person (the hardships, gender, age, circumstances, and etc...). Really, figuring out those things can be one of the joys to human relations. When I see manuals about friends being formed like this, families working like that, guys liking this, girls liking this; it's almost enough to make me vomit.
So... what do you all think? Do manuals work or is the entire world crazy.
Furthermore, it'd be nice hearing the experiences of others in human relations.
One thing that I always say for every aspect of life, from music to literature to movies to even relationships, is that the two hardest parts are the beginning and the end. So talk about how a conversation started up that led to friendship etc and talk about, if it applies, it ended ; ).
Perhaps from this discussion we can determine the faults in regards to human relations that seem inherent in so many cultures and where they came from.