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Hello and welcome to the thread in which you can ask a lot of questions but get very little answered in return! Here I offer my services as a research psychologist to enlighten you on matters that you've probably never thought about and in all likelihood never will again.

So ask away, my fellow vaudevillian thespians, and in return you will receive all manner of eldritch knowledge.
 

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Alright. As a first patient, My first question is :

Q : What I'm doing with my life? What is my name? When I'm gonna die?

Maybe you were looking for a different thread. In case you weren't, though, it's important to remember psychologists aren't mind readers. What a lot of psychologists do excel at, however, is helping people to realise their goals and move ahead on the pathway to self-actualisation. I am not one of these people.

What I spend most of my time doing is working on attention and memory, particularly how these concepts relate to how we cognise generally, interact in the world, and the role our body plays in motivating thought.
 
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Now this is a nice thread to post something. Okay here's my question Sir, what should I do if I'm deeply in love with a lady who's already married and had 3 kids?
 

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Now this is a nice thread to post something. Okay here's my question Sir, what should I do if I'm deeply in love with a lady who's already married and had 3 kids?

That's tough. Well, research shows that it's not just our brains that contribute to the ways we think, but also our bodily capabilities and the environment too. Maybe you should get out of the environment you're in and seek some clarification.
 
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That's tough. Well, research shows that it's not just our brains that contribute to the ways we think, but also our bodily capabilities and the environment too. Maybe you should get out of the environment you're in and seek some clarification.

Okay follow question Doc, lets say I didn't get out of that environment and instead I decided keep loving her. Then she learned to love me as well, I helped her financially and because of that I give less money to my mother. My question is, Am I a good person?
 
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What I spend most of my time doing is working on attention and memory

Cool. Did you efficiently become a more focused person (in terms of attention and memory) after these years spent working with those subjects?

and the role our body plays in motivating thought.

Now I'm curious about that one! How? Exercising regularly I guess?
 

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Cool. Did you efficiently become a more focused person (in terms of attention and memory) after these years spent working with those subjects?

I wish! Actually, procrastination is my biggest bugbear.

Now I'm curious about that one! How? Exercising regularly I guess?

You're kinda right, actually. See, we're all familiar with the idea the saying "our brains are computers", when actually this couldn't be further from the truth. Anecdotally, the best evidence to show this simply isn’t the case comes from the case argument. This is the idea that if you have a computer, regardless of the shell it’s in – be it a desktop, a phone or a laptop – it will function the same. The hardware is not different, and works similarly regardless of what form it comes in. Now, when we turn our attention to humanity, this isn’t as straight forwards. We know that if you are lacking a limb, for example, your thoughts, your cognitions will be totally different to someone that is not missing a limb.

One of my favourite arguments in this debate comes from perception. Colour doesn’t exist. What we see as colour is just lightwave reflectance that are picked up by cells in our eyes. The actual process is relatively straight forwards: we have colour cone detectors that feed information into our occipital lobes. Most of us have three different kinds of colour cones, if you’re colour blind then you have less, and some incredibly lucky women have four. This means that there’s no green in grass or blue in the sky, but instead that you create beautiful scenes on a daily basis. It also means that if you’ve ever had an argument with someone about whether or not something is red or pink, you may have both been correct. Incredible in its own right, this suggests that colour is an interaction. An interaction between the contents of our environment and the physical, perceptual capabilities we have.

But we still apply these labels, red, green, blue, to things. So language doesn’t fit the world directly: you don’t know if my green is your green. These linguistic labels are not the real thing. Ceci n'est pas une pipe. Language, a thing we feel can describe everything, can’t. And you know this already. If you’ve ever experienced something amazing and tried to explain it to someone, maybe it was a funny moment, maybe you were really upset by something, or maybe you realised you were in love… You’ve probably found the explanation really difficult. You’ve probably used the phrase you just had to be there.

And this tells us something nice about language. We can even have issues with single words, like ambiguities. Take the word bat, you don’t know if I’m referring to a flying mammal or the act of striking something. But as soon as I put this language into a context, the ambiguities disappear. Do you think a bat could bat a mosquito while flying? You know the former is the mammal, the latter is the act of hitting. Gregory Bateson, a linguist said it best when he mentioned that without context, or words and actions have no meaning at all.

Let’s talk a little more about meaning. Does this road run or meander through the forest? Teenie Matlock asked exactly this of her participants and found those primed with action words like running responded significantly faster than those primed with more passive words like meander or stroll. Interestingly, this was the case even in individuals blind from birth because of image schema.

Schemas are the hierarchical ordering categories of language. Things like chair and car, where if I ask you to think of one you probably think of something similar to what you’re sitting on now, or you think of a Ferrari. You can’t quite think of a general one. These schemas structure our world, how we see it, and how we interact with it. They’re related to another concept we call the conceptual metaphor.

These are best understood, I think, with the example "time is money". Now, time’s abstract. We can’t see it. But, we can spend, steal, save and – if you’re anything like me – waste money. And I waste a lot of it. We systematically abstract our understanding of money to time. Metaphors shape our perceptions and restrict our thoughts.

Considered together, we have the basis of embodied cognition. The idea that our image schemas, our frames and metaphors are all actually interlinked neural circuitry. The idea that, radically, not just our mind is responsible for the ways we think, but also the body and the environment too. And this explains how we learn abstract concepts, things like happiness, anger, and love.

Why we play Warcraft 3 ?

We play videogames because it is rewarding and reinforces behaviour. We like the escapism that comes from playing videogames, and we like getting told we're doing well at things. It's nice.
 
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I'm fascinated. I always thought that the languages and other things that try to label existing phenomenons (be it colors, music genres or Hive's map category section) has the effect of restraining our thought in some way. People tend to react negatively when they can't clearly label something, and when something's new that's the first thing we try to do ("this unit lacks a specific role, remove it"; "what situation best suits this new drink? casual, party or sports?"). Cool to read about languages and perception from your perspective. Thank you for the explanations :)

We know that if you are lacking a limb, for example, your thoughts, your cognitions will be totally different to someone that is not missing a limb.

Do we? Hahaha I actually just learned that. It isn't the kind of thing a non-psychologist would think/read about.
 

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I'm fascinated. I always thought that the languages and other things that try to label existing phenomenons (be it colors, music genres or Hive's map category section) has the effect of restraining our thought in some way. People tend to react negatively when they can't clearly label something, and when something's new that's the first thing we try to do ("this unit lacks a specific role, remove it"; "what situation best suits this new drink? casual, party or sports?"). Cool to read about languages and perception from your perspective. Thank you for the explanations :)

You're welcome, I'm glad to have been of (some) help! As for some further reading, you might want to check out the concept of spreading activation, as this will answer some of the points you raise on language. If you wanted a book, I can whole-heartedly recommend Philosophy in the Flash by George Lakoff and Mark Johnson.

EDIT: Cognitive Psychology by Eysenck is also a pretty good read, but much more directed toward the academician than my other suggestion.

Do we? Hahaha I actually just learned that. It isn't the kind of thing a non-psychologist would think/read about.

Sorry, sometimes I use the collective "we" to refer to myself and other psychologists. It's a nomenclature thing (and can be rather frustrating).
 
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Why do people remember certain things better than other people? My friend has an incredible memory for names in fantasy games, books, and movies. I can't remember the names of characters I read about yesterday.
 

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Some times, i suddenly put up a really big smile and got this feeling to laugh whenever i saw my brother faces. What's the cause?
 
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Nice explanation about perception and language.

The world we receive in our perception is just a creation or model made by our brain. Then it tells us that the 'reality' we perceive is just an illusion of our mind. It seems like there is no definite difference between reality and illusion.
This also makes the human's cognitive ability unreliable because of with just certain situations we perceive the environment vastly different.
It's really interesting to see our world different from the 'reality' that we perceive right now.


Why do people remember certain things better than other people? My friend has an incredible memory for names in fantasy games, books, and movies. I can't remember the names of characters I read about yesterday.

Some people even have eidetic memory (ability to recall images, sounds, or objects in memory after a few instances of exposure with high precision) or hyperthymesia a condition of remembering extremely detailed autobiographical memory like weather of that day or clothes he/she wore.

I wonder how these people can store and recall that much data. Most of the time I forgot a lot of things in a random, irregular way like just forgetting who I was talking to, or what we were talking about.
 

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I want to have a private consultation with you soon, Ash. It's kinda serious :/
 

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Why do people remember certain things better than other people? My friend has an incredible memory for names in fantasy games, books, and movies. I can't remember the names of characters I read about yesterday.

Nature, nurture and stimuli saliency. I deal with more implicit functions as opposed to something rather explicit like episodic memory, so unfortunately I can't help you much more than that.

Some times, i suddenly put up a really big smile and got this feeling to laugh whenever i saw my brother faces. What's the cause?

Learned association, maybe?

I want to have a private consultation with you soon, Ash. It's kinda serious :/

I'm not a therapist, and I wouldn't be comfortable discussing issues of mental health online. If your private conversation relates to that, the only advice I can give is to find a registered, competent mental health practitioner near you and go speak to them. Good luck!
 
what is the scenario exactly? the baby is literally left behind the stranger with the stranger knowing/ not knowing it? is the baby on the floor or whats the scenario exactly? stranger so i assume that anything can go here depends on how i think? also where are the strangers facing? how can they not notice you leaving a baby behind em? there are a lot of vague details here. too much things to deal with. how do i proceed from here? i cannot generate a response there are simply a lot of possible outcomes. will you still help me?
 

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Sorry for the late replies! I was in India.

Nice thread.

Speaking of the bugbear of procrastination: How can I increase my ability to attribute future misery with my current (poor /in-)actions?

Thanks! So, toward procrastination. I think the biggest issue is that we tend to classify things in a classically Descartian way. That is, we see things as being either black or white. There is no middle ground. Western society has pushed towards this for a long time, and certainly good things have came from this viewpoint. But also bad things. Like this.

So beating procrastination is a toughie. The idea of beating it reinforces dualistic thinking, so my first suggestion is that you should stop thinking about it like that. You are not "beating procrastination", instead you are just accepting that at times you will procrastinate. Instead, try using techniques designed to better your attention like pomodoro. Log how much work you do, and reflect on it.

I think attributing misery to your current situation is a terrible idea, however. As a person that is already perfectly good at doing exactly that I have no inclination to help someone else.
hi, whats wrong with me?

Wrong thread.

Okay, here's a question.

What happens when a baby is left behind with strangers? If any action is bound to happen , state your reasons.

This is too broad a situation, I'm afraid. Many things will happen -- and for many reasons, too.

I hate myself and I wanna love myself.

Accept yourself. Try counselling.

Why nobody loves me here on THW? I'm a nice and kind Warseeker :) I won't hurt you :)

Introspection is key! Psychologists aren't mind readers.
 
Ooooooh, a research psychologist studying cognition!

I've got a few.

I'm going back to university for a dual major in psychology and computer science. I'm very interested in the cognition of perception and memory models - specifically human-computer interaction. What are some of the most interesting new developments in our understanding of memory and perception in your eyes?

Can you talk about any of the research you are working on?
 
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You mentioned counseling above. What's your opinion about counseling? It's something I've thought about pursuing as a career. First I need to go to counseling to see what it's like and how it affects me, but I've always been attracted to the idea of talking to people for a living, and helping them.

I assume, since you recommended it to someone, you think it's a good thing.
So to start..

What is your general opinion about counseling?
Why go to counseling?
What is the role of a counselor?

I also assume this is not your field professionally, but I'd still love to hear your opinion.
 

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Why do people deny the fact that they are in love when it's obvious?

People are strange.

Why they say "It's not the important to do whats you love but to love whats you do..."

It's a matter of perspective. You shouldn't only do the things you love, because then we'd never get everything done. You should love everything you're doing, though, because you'll never get the chance to do it in the same way ever again.

Ooooooh, a research psychologist studying cognition!

I've got a few.

I'm going back to university for a dual major in psychology and computer science. I'm very interested in the cognition of perception and memory models - specifically human-computer interaction. What are some of the most interesting new developments in our understanding of memory and perception in your eyes?

Can you talk about any of the research you are working on?

Good questions, and maybe the first that are directly related to what I'm actually! Congratz on choosing your major; I hope you enjoy it! I'm interested in perception too, but not so much HCI. To that end, I don't really keep up with their literature, but I have a close friend that does. If you wanted me to ask him anything, I'd be happy to.

But, to answer both of your questions at once, the most interesting stuff I'm currently playing around with relates to how effects we typically consider to be embodied (aka, directly related to sensorimotor information) interact with one another. At present, my research concerns spatial semantics, numbers and affordances. During the PhD, I've made a case for the existence of a pre-linguistic, generalised magnitude system that, via means of spreading activation and common coding, causes some very interesting effects. For example, the spatial semantics of words, object microaffordances and number presentations bias attention in ways similar hypothesised by the concept of mental number space. Most interestingly, though, are that the interactions observed have been both facilitatory and superadditive in nature. In other words, depending upon the direction of the effect (bottom up vs top down processing) you are able to observe some really interesting responses from participants - even in low level cognitive processes like properties of eye movement. It is 8:30am where I live, and I'm still waiting for the first coffee to kick in: I hope this makes sense! If I can help out with your direction of study at all, please let me know. Collaboration is cool

You mentioned counseling above. What's your opinion about counseling? It's something I've thought about pursuing as a career. First I need to go to counseling to see what it's like and how it affects me, but I've always been attracted to the idea of talking to people for a living, and helping them.

I assume, since you recommended it to someone, you think it's a good thing.
So to start..

What is your general opinion about counseling?
Why go to counseling?
What is the role of a counselor?

I also assume this is not your field professionally, but I'd still love to hear your opinion.

Counselling is a good profession. In the UK it can get a bad rap from people that believe you should put up and shut up, but these are the exact people that would benefit from an intervention. It is not weak to admit you're suffering from something, and it is certainly not weak to get help. Counselling can be beneficial for any number of reasons from the obvious (depression, anxiety), to the not-so-obvious (just needing some help figuring things out). During a session you're in a receptive, reflective space: the mental health professional actually does very little beyond displaying unconditional positive regard. That is, the counsellor just accepts you as a person. They may make suggestions and honestly sound their thoughts, but in the end it is you that is most familiar with your own mind. These people are there to help you to realise that.

I respect consellors hugely. It is an incredibly difficult field, both in terms of getting into and staying in. But, we need people to do it. Good luck.
 
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one of my late friends was dying of cancer but his family refused to treat it like a problem. so much so that it was actually damaging his perception of reality. they put him through the rest of highschool, got him a job and he worked like a normal guy right up until his death

with absolutely no last day celebration or blowing all his money because he was going to die... he died like a whisper.

it felt like, is this it?

anyway I just wonder what is the correct course of action when you know you will die soon?
 

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one of my late friends was dying of cancer but his family refused to treat it like a problem. so much so that it was actually damaging his perception of reality. they put him through the rest of highschool, got him a job and he worked like a normal guy right up until his death

with absolutely no last day celebration or blowing all his money because he was going to die... he died like a whisper.

it felt like, is this it?

anyway I just wonder what is the correct course of action when you know you will die soon?

It's horrible to hear, I'm sorry your friend went through that. Your question is broad, and as such I feel answering it may do you a misjustice. I don't want to leave you empty handed, so I'm going to rephrase the question.

"What is the correct course of action if you are going to die soon due to causes you are unable to prevent"

Accept it. Take pleasure in the moment. Know, now more than ever, you will never experience something as beautiful as what you are experiencing right now. Live.

Please know this is just opinion, unmotivated by research. I don't know work in this field, so this is only how I feel about the matter.
 
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They may make suggestions and honestly sound their thoughts, but in the end it is you that is most familiar with your own mind. These people are there to help you to realise that.
Hearing from friends, their experience with a counselor was often more directed or hands on (for lack of the right word). They would receive "unconditional positive regard" (I call that love :p), but sometimes that means hearing what you don't want to and having someone call you on your bullshit.

Edit: I googled unconditional positive regard. Really fascinating stuff! When I studied philosophy, this was the kind of thing I really enjoyed. I never got around to taking psychology, but I have a feeling I would really enjoy it.

From my wikipedia research, UPR seems like the exact thing that Christians have been trying to teach for a couple thousand years. Unconditional love is what humanity desires most of all. Even if we don't think so.
 
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when I was younger, I tried committed suicide several times

the thing I never understood was. when Ever I started to bleed out I would panic and seal up the wound. my intention was truly and absolutely to die, but yet when I was slowly dying I refused

what's up with that?
 

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when I was younger, I tried committed suicide several times

the thing I never understood was. when Ever I started to bleed out I would panic and seal up the wound. my intention was truly and absolutely to die, but yet when I was slowly dying I refused

what's up with that?

Again, I have to stress that I'm an academician. My psychology comes in the form of research, specifically the examination of how things like attention and memory are embedded in different processes.

As of such, I really can't answer your question to a degree that would give you satisfaction and me piece of mind. I do hope you're feeling better than you were when you were younger, though.
 
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