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That's a personal "issue" if I may use that term. I myself couldn't care less. Well that's not entirely true. I do have an upper limit. Lol anyway.
The example is exactly what I was talking about. Would it have been better if you never got to know her age?
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As impossible as that would be (to not know your spouse's age), yeah, it would've been better I suppose.
However, it's definitely just me and definitely a personal issue; I feel that I have a mild case of 'inferiority complex'. I discovered (on my LDS mission, where we spend 2 years 'fused at the hip' with some other dude(s, anywhere from 5 to 15 but only 1 or 2 at a time) as you wander around the world teaching the gospel) that I tended to take a lower, subservient position in my relationships with others (esp. guys (to whom hierarchy is important) especially). This "self-deprecation" made me *even lower* when I was paired with some dude who was older/out longer than me... But somehow, made myself feel as 'equals' or 'peers' to the dudes who were younger/out less than me.
Thus I determined that my wife would need to be younger than me for me to feel 'equal' to her.
PSYCHE. ^_^ But it's working out. Oh the follies of youth.
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On the topic of "upper limit", I kinda agree. Sorta. See, the older you get, the less (I feel) it matters. Ultimately you're just all adults, and a 30ish-yr-old dating a nearly 50ish-yr-old? Not so weird, except when you consider the ~20yr difference. :<
Take my parents for example; now, in their late 40's/50's, the 7.5yr difference isn't a big deal... But it *was* when you think about how my dad was in college (technically, at 17) while my mom was in elementary school. At *that* age, that's a criminal offense, lol.
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Done. To spare you the "embarrassment" I left the author's name out
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Nonsense! I've been quoted for dumber. Let my awexomeness spread through the site. : )