yea, when i start to listen metal i start whit metallica, iron maiden and bands like that. But what you said melodeath is best. IN Flames is my favorite band, i just love it, but i like old albums like Colony, Clayman and especially Subterranean (just becouse Biosphere and Dead Eternity). Well on they'r first two albums was Mikael Stanne on vocal place and after that he switch whit Anders Friden (he was vocal in Dark Tranquillity).