How to be in-love ?

[Rheiko]

i'm not joking, i bug them xD

 

[Avex]

This thread really didn't need any more answers, essentially I said what everyone else did and /thread'd it.

 

[jonhysone]

PROBLEM SOLVED , I GOT IT , I GOT IT .
NOW I CAN REST IN LOVE ( R.I.L )
Thanks guys .
Btw this thread was really long , chherz

 

[Daffa]

I won't let myself Rest like that before I have succeed in my life actually.

 

[Wazzz]

if you need advice on girls, you came to the wrong place

 

[Rheiko]

if you need advice on girls, you came to the wrong place..
you must ask master wazzz here..

 

[GreeN!X]

Asking the internet instead of your parents? Well..

 

[Rheiko]

maybe he doesn't has a courage :\
for me, my parents can't support me so it's better to not asking something like that anywhere but try it by myself
anyway, i get an advice from anime xD
Lol

 

[GreeN!X]

Well, I think our parents are the ones we(18 below or even the adults) should get love advice from, they are in love after all or in some cases (divorced parents or whatevs), at least they have a lot more experience.

Well, you may be shy with your parents so I guess it's a bit fine to ask the internet...but I don't think a Wc3 Modding site is the best choice...

 

[Rheiko]

of course it's not

 

[trolman]

Yeah no, dont do that. Mine trolled me, hard .

 

[mckill2009]

no dont ask parents, they are sometimes overprotecting us, learn from experienced guys, but anyway if you dont have that strength inside, it's useless to learn...

 

[Kyrbi0]

no dont ask parents, they are sometimes overprotecting us, learn from experienced guys, but anyway if you dont have that strength inside, it's useless to learn...

Yeah, "experienced" guys is probably one of the worst ways to go; there are too many myths about love, affection, and intimacy circulating in society for that to be very helpful. Parents are there for a reason, but if that's an issue, find a family member or something, someone you trust and that seems to make wise decisions. Ol' drunk uncle Boris or crazy 4th-husband Melinda are probably not good options, for example.

 

[BLazeKraze]

I am Psychology student so I want to explain this to you . Love is a emotion which is hard to define .

Love

Love includes physiological arousal, self-disclosure, all-encompassing interest in another individual, fantasizing about the other, and a relatively rapid swing of emotions . Love includes passion, closeness, sexual desire, and intense caring . Researchers have distinguished 2 main types of love. Passionate or Romantic love predominates in the early part of romantic relationship. Includes intense physiological arousal, psychological interest, sexual desire . Compassionate Love is a type of love occurs when we a deep, caring affection for a person .

People fell in love when they feel that some people comport them or any good things.

 

[Deleted member 219079]

How to be in-love?

Being in love is easy. Just remember, don't rush, once the dust fades away you start to see how bitch she is in real. Then you ask yourself do you want her. At the end, divorces are such a mess, everyone loses.

 

[trolman]

Dont ever fall in love !

 

[DESTROYER123]

Being in love is a very strange feeling.
To start with, being in love is totaly different from the thing: Wow! I saw a hot girl across the street. Men, se has so smexy. I wanna .... her.
NO!
Love is something strange.
It can be "casted" while you meet someone deeper or even at first sting.
After that you just think about her.
You don't wanna eat.
You just thing her.
You open the PC and get really bored because you thing something is missing, that something is wrong.
The answer is her. Her,her,her,her.
And when you finally meet her and start a relationshipwith her,
you fly.
The ending is mixed up so I don't wanna discrbe it.


Source: Personal Experience.

 

[trolman]

Being in love is a very strange feeling.
To start with, being in love is totaly different from the thing: Wow! I saw a hot girl across the street. Men, se has so smexy. I wanna .... her.
NO!
Love is something strange.
It can be "casted" while you meet someone deeper or even at first sting.
After that you just think about her.
You don't wanna eat.
You just thing her.
You open the PC and get really bored because you thing something is missing, that something is wrong.
The answer is her. Her,her,her,her.
And when you finally meet her and start a relationshipwith her,
you fly.
The ending is mixed up so I don't wanna discrbe it.


Source: Personal Experience.

And then she doesnt want to know you and you're left alone with the bottle in your hand.

 

[chobibo]

And then she doesn't want to know you and you're left alone with the bottle in your hand.

Bottle in one hand, her picture on the other.

 

[Zombie]

Whatever you do, never let the woman control your life. It's a dark abyss of impossible situations and suffering.

 

[jonhysone]

Well I got a result.. which is I should never do on Hiveworkshop members' opinions ._.
Probably 24 girls blocked me BECAUSE OF YOU :|

 

[chobibo]

Don't blame us, you wanted this.

 

[Geazergimli2]

Hopefully when you get your first girlfriend (assuming it's your first) your initial moments won't start as embarrassing as mine did. My mother told everyone on Facebook how nice my girlfriend was and tagged me and her in a few photos, a lot of my friends at school saw the photos and what she said and teased me for a while, many of my mom's Filipino friends also bugged me a lot on FB as well , though none of it really affected me that much since I was too happy being in a relationship

So yeah, if your parents are at all like mine I wouldn't go telling them I had a girlfriend till the time was right xD

 

[chobibo]

Wow, they're more excited than you were.

 

[Geazergimli2]

Wow, they're more excited than you were.

Haha my mom might have been, I just came home one day without telling them I ever had a girlfriend, and she was both joyful and surprised, it was funny to see, didn't expect her to go all crazy on Facebook though, but it turned out much better later on, so i can't complain really, Just another interesting experience I had in my life I guess haha

 

[StoPCampinGn00b]

Didn't tell anybody. Because she wouldn't tell here parents.

@Chobibo

Sorry bro, you a great friend. I guess I didn't know what I was saying, the message I posted was to point out how you had an awesome spike of activity the past months. I didn't get to read the other stuff because I was eating dinner.

 

[Daffa]

Here's a little guide from me for this kind of stuff.

For those who's very young and just start entering teen age, I strongly advice to never try to get the person who's you're falling in love with to become your girlfriend/boyfriend.
I have experience this far much better than most of my friends at school, I know the darkest part of it for youngsters, the part where when you're rejected.
Trust me, it's better to keep silent than get rejected, you will suffer more pain if you let the person you're fall in love with know about it and start to hate you.

~Daffa

 

[StoPCampinGn00b]

Hmm. I asked out one of my friends a month ago. Rejection went well. But of course, I trust Daffa.

 

[trolman]

Well I got a result.. which is I should never do on Hiveworkshop members' opinions ._.
Probably 24 girls blocked me BECAUSE OF YOU :|

Dafaq did you say?

 

[Rheiko]

Here's a little guide from me for this kind of stuff.

For those who's very young and just start entering teen age, I strongly advice to never try to get the person who's you're falling in love with to become your girlfriend/boyfriend.
I have experience this far much better than most of my friends at school, I know the darkest part of it for youngsters, the part where when you're rejected.
Trust me, it's better to keep silent than get rejected, you will suffer more pain if you let the person you're fall in love with know about it and start to hate you.

~Daffa

lol? i get rejected but she is still my friend and doesn't hate me at all

 

[Daffa]

Trust me, I have experience this twice, so I know what I'm saying.

 

[Rheiko]

i'll make my own decision, sorry daffa

 

[chobibo]

I always got rejected, maybe because I do less talking and do more groping and grabbing. I let loose the dogs of lust. Then I met someone who groped me too, and we fell in-love. Rheiko is right, experience is different for everyone, so the best action here is to do what your heart desires, which in my case was groping.

 

[GreeN!X]

^That's awesome. I'd rep you for that great love story if this wasn't the off-topic.

@OP Lesson learned? Don't ask the internet about love. It's all in how YOU handle it.

 

[chobibo]

Emphasize the word handle.

 

[Kyrbi0]

I always got rejected, maybe because I do less talking and do more groping and grabbing. I let loose the dogs of lust. Then I met someone who groped me too, and we fell in-love. Rheiko is right, experience is different for everyone, so the best action here is to do what your heart desires, which in my case was groping.

That's... Unfortunate.

I'm glad you found someone to 'love', but what are your thoughts/plans for when the 'groping and grabbing' are no longer feasible/enjoyable? If that is your love, then when that's gone or ineffective, will your love be gone? :<

 

[chobibo]

That's... Unfortunate.

I'm glad you found someone to 'love', but what are your thoughts/plans for when the 'groping and grabbing' are no longer feasible/enjoyable? If that is your love, then when that's gone or ineffective, will your love be gone? :<

Please don't judge dude, to you it may seem twisted, but for us, it's how we express love. I only stated how we met.

 

[Razer!X]

Well I actually got few experiences with this kind of situations. Well if you have a phone then text her and ask if it is ok if the two of you could text for a while. You can start that off with asking her how her day was or what she did and something like that. I don't know if it would work for you but that worked with me.

 

[Kyrbi0]

Please don't judge dude, to you it may seem twisted, but for us, it's how we express love. I only stated how we met.

Hey, I did my best to make that post as non-judgmental as possible. I never said it was twisted. And believe me, I express love that way, too. : ) However, the question remains and I hope it was seen as pertinent; when death, illness, injury or just old age take their toll, is that the only or primary form of 'affectionate communication' between the two of you?

 

[chobibo]

Hey, I did my best to make that post as non-judgmental as possible. I never said it was twisted. And believe me, I express love that way, too. : ) However, the question remains and I hope it was seen as pertinent; when death, illness, injury or just old age take their toll, is that the only or primary form of 'affectionate communication' between the two of you?

Oh, sorry about that, It's hard for me to determine the meaning of words unless I hear them, I misunderstood. We don't do it nowadays, it was just puberty, it's gone now lol.