Can you publicly state what the cause for this stance is? Like, what motivates you (or someone who agrees with you; one) to adopt this hard-line stance? Is it a matter of respect, a distaste for authority, a desire for efficiency, what? (I know this sounds trite but I believe every Rule should exist for a Reason, and every Reason should serve a Purpose; the "no cheating" Rule exists in order to stop cheaters, and that fulfills our purpose of an "ethically-grounded community" with true "tests of skill".)
Should this be determined on a Contest-by-Contest basis, or on a site-wide basis?
(I love the new Drafts system; I just closed my browser a few hours ago without saving, and my computer had a black-out as well... And it's all here. : P)
Personally, I think a lot can be taken care of if we mandate "communication" to a greater degree than currently. It's a big difference between a Judge simply 'disappearing without a trace' and a continual stream of information as to their progress & situation.
I'm a lot more likely to be lenient if the Judge himself is posting; stuff like "Hey guys, I'm 1/4-way through" -- "Hey there, had a busy week, only 1/2-way through" -- "Almost done, hopefully this weekend..." -- "Hey, lost my job/car broke down/death in the family; I'm gonna be a bit/let's find someone else/etc". Communication is more than half the battle, in my mind.
I'm not sure I'm entirely convinced, though, that we should neg-rep Judges. We only just began offering them plus Rep for performing the essential Judging service; seems like a slap in the face for what is ultimately a hobby (granted, the Contestants are also hobbyists...).
(Although you didn't talk about it here, but elsewhere,) I'm also not sure I can entirely get behind the "give up on Judges & go to Poll results"; at least, not without a drastic overhaul to the Polling system/requirements/expectations/zeitgeist/paradigm/phenomenon/bigwordshere.