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People who went off the rail

Discussion in 'Off-Topic' started by Reon, Dec 12, 2019.

  1. Reon

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    thanks it helped me get things into perspective as Ive realized he has alienated everyone who was once close to him,
     
  2. Spear

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    Sometimes you dont know the real person, what you know is simply a facade that you mistake for what he is
     
  3. Reon

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    I agree..but i feel like the matter is a great deal more complicated than this
     
  4. Spear

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    Complicated? What do you mean?
     
  5. Reon

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    I mean its difficult to understand...nvrmind
     
  6. Spear

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    Some people are just very good at hiding behind masks and lying, they may even lie to themselves to the point where they believe their own bs, that's about it
     
  7. Reon

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    I think he either had really good impression management; like managing how he acted in front of certain people to convince them of how he is, or maybe mood swings or something

    idk maybe im overthinking the issue here
     
  8. Spear

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    I think it comes down to this: how well do you know your friends?
     
  9. Lord Esdin

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    Thats a good point, but its easy to misjudge someone
     
  10. Spear

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    In what sense?
     
  11. Lord Esdin

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    @Spear

    I mean lets say you know someone for a long time, he may have changed but you still think he's the same person and trust him as if he was, also knowing someone for a long time is different than knowing someone really well, you can know someone for a while but that doesn't mean you know him well
     
  12. Spear

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    It's really about how close you are to someone not how long you've known him, but the longer you've known him the more experience you've had from which to judge his character, am I incorrect?
     
  13. Reon

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    To know a person well you have to know him for a long time + hang out frequently

    I thought I was good at reading people, now I am a bit doubtful of my own ability
     
  14. Spear

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    Doubtful because of one person?
     
  15. Reon

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    Him and some other ppl I thought were good
     
  16. Spear

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    Maybe you just had bad luck with a few people
     
  17. Reon

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    maybe
     
  18. Spear

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    Just forget about the person this topic is about, that will probably be the best for you...
     
  19. Reon

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    ye I just feel like I needed some outside opinion
     
  20. Spear

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    Just dont let one instance like that ruin your faith in people, there will always be some bad apples.