after doing the following things, my map does not desync anymore:
with the software Widgetizer i only used the unit and abilities option
i stopped using the software Wc3SLKOpt
with the trigger create quest, i changed obligatory to optional
i dont know wich one of them was the responsible for the desyncs and finding out would take me so many hours of work, testing, stress, im not going to do it
so for the people with desync problems watch out for these things
with the software Widgetizer i only used the unit and abilities option
i stopped using the software Wc3SLKOpt
with the trigger create quest, i changed obligatory to optional
i dont know wich one of them was the responsible for the desyncs and finding out would take me so many hours of work, testing, stress, im not going to do it
so for the people with desync problems watch out for these things