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Hai thar guys,
I have a issue I seriously wanna talk about due to certain incidents.
I actually wanted to make this thread in the sub-forum "Medivh's Tower" since I want SERIOUS answers and no nonsense, but obviously I can't since I have not enough rights. Whatever.
Well, as stated, the issue is Violence within the family. I openly admit that I experienced it myself and I need/want to get advice to get over it.
My father often "beat" me when I was younger. I wouldn't say he won't do it anymore, but now I'm older and able to defend myself. For what I know, he has experienced the very same in his childhood, probably he doesn't know any other option to handle the usual stuff kids do. The smallest, most unsignificant things young children get up to were reason enough for him to get another temper.
I don't wanna say he is the incarnation of evil, he clearly has a good side as well, but the bad side is worse than people usually have. This bad side actually made my childhood to a nightmare which I don't wanna put away just like that.
So, how do you guys think I should react when he is going to provoke another fight? What should I do to handle this situation? Do you have experienced violence within your family as well?
Before you leave a comment, please, I don't seek compassion nor I want advice how I should carry out revenge to my father. Just a serious advice how to prepare for another situation like this, please.
You also could just leave a comment about what you think about violence within families. That's fine with me.
EDIT:
Since some users might got me wrong or I expressed it kinda wrong, here's the definition of how he "beat" me.
He never beat me with his fist or something. He ... "just" pushed me to the wall heavily or threw things to me (like shoes or bottles). The most horrible thing he did to me (which I'll NEVER forgive him) is that he once pushed me to the ground when I had a broken arm. Well, it's probably not the kind of beating you guys thought, but this counts as beating too, I guess.
I have a issue I seriously wanna talk about due to certain incidents.
I actually wanted to make this thread in the sub-forum "Medivh's Tower" since I want SERIOUS answers and no nonsense, but obviously I can't since I have not enough rights. Whatever.
Well, as stated, the issue is Violence within the family. I openly admit that I experienced it myself and I need/want to get advice to get over it.
My father often "beat" me when I was younger. I wouldn't say he won't do it anymore, but now I'm older and able to defend myself. For what I know, he has experienced the very same in his childhood, probably he doesn't know any other option to handle the usual stuff kids do. The smallest, most unsignificant things young children get up to were reason enough for him to get another temper.
I don't wanna say he is the incarnation of evil, he clearly has a good side as well, but the bad side is worse than people usually have. This bad side actually made my childhood to a nightmare which I don't wanna put away just like that.
So, how do you guys think I should react when he is going to provoke another fight? What should I do to handle this situation? Do you have experienced violence within your family as well?
Before you leave a comment, please, I don't seek compassion nor I want advice how I should carry out revenge to my father. Just a serious advice how to prepare for another situation like this, please.
You also could just leave a comment about what you think about violence within families. That's fine with me.
EDIT:
Since some users might got me wrong or I expressed it kinda wrong, here's the definition of how he "beat" me.
He never beat me with his fist or something. He ... "just" pushed me to the wall heavily or threw things to me (like shoes or bottles). The most horrible thing he did to me (which I'll NEVER forgive him) is that he once pushed me to the ground when I had a broken arm. Well, it's probably not the kind of beating you guys thought, but this counts as beating too, I guess.
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