Why do you want to know this? Arc length is very, very rarely useful for anything on a parabola.
I think you are confused about something here. Z is the height of a point L distance along the parabola, where L is given by a line in the xy plane and is the distance in the 'direction of motion' of the parabola since the 'start' of it. L is usually something you choose or you set because you are periodically moving an object by some dx and dy (in the xy plane). In the XY plane the object moves as if it's a straight line, really the Z motion is entirely uncoupled from the XY motion, so you don't need to compute XY. You use the length of XY (the distance since the start: SQRT((xf-xi)^2 + (yf-yi)^2)) to compute Z based on the characteristics parameters of your parabola (d and h in your other thread).
It's possible what you mean something about the components of the right triangle corresponding to the launch angle. Is THAT what you're trying to figure out?