Goin Ape is short for going Ape$#&% and it means to go crazy over something for no good reason. It's not a good habit to get into because it's looked down on by society. Throwing tantrums is never a good habit, it's better to just ebb and flow.
EDIT:Meh I don't really care that they don't want help, I deserve it anyway...(I should learn not to interfere with other's projects) but these forums are supposed to help those who can't figure out things by themselves. The things they want are probably quite advanced, but take the moonwalk for example: not everyone can do it, sometimes you need a little help, but if you don't want help it doesn't effect me, so i'll stay out of your business.