Consider Ralle,
it's his site, he owns it, he made the rules, and if you break them, you get punished. If you don't set boundaries for a child, it will become unruly, and violent, and aggressive. Rules are not here to limit us, they are here to guide us.
And calm down for god's sakes, life isn't always easy, it's usually a bitch, and you'd better get used to it! Every person has their own major problems to deal with, your not the only person who's perhaps a little confused, or sad, or emotional.