Jealousy

WhiteFang · Jan 23, 2015

What is your opinion on jealousy and is there something specific your jealous of?

chobibo · Jan 23, 2015

a. True Love.
b. Dunno.

Nuclear · Jan 23, 2015

It's natural, and maybe servers as a motivator, pushes us to become better. Just don't let it take over.

I'm jealous of people with metric shit tons of money.

The Panda · Jan 24, 2015

Im not jealous of anything or anyone. Just sometimes i get jealous of specific things people are able to do, or good at doing.

andreariona · Jan 24, 2015

Natural unecessary feeling, sometimes you can use it for motivate yourself.

Zombie · Jan 26, 2015

I'm jealous when in a relationship, but otherwise not so much. Even in a relationship, I try not to express it, only in a very subtle manner.

Chicks don't really get it when you say "I'm only jealous because you're important", they think you don't trust them and that's why you are.

mckill2009 · Jan 26, 2015

I dont feel jealous but Im angry with things that are happening of this world...

Zwiebelchen · Jan 27, 2015

Jealousy makes or breaks relationships. As always, the poison comes with the dosage.

Too little and you'll fall into daily routine, not even trying anymore. Too much and you'll end up taking the fun out of any relationship.

Edge45 · Jan 27, 2015

I have jealousy, jealousy of those who aren't fair, like him been given 50$ while I was given 15$, that ain't fair so I'm jealous of people who aren't fair,

Zombie · Jan 27, 2015

Edge45 said:
I have jealousy, jealousy of those who aren't fair, like him been given 50$ while I was given 15$, that ain't fair so I'm jealous of people who aren't fair,

Go to school, work more.

I kinda dislike people who are jealous of others because they have more wealth, while refusing to act on achieving any progress themselves.

Edge45 · Jan 27, 2015

Zombie said:
Go to school, work more.

I kinda dislike people who are jealous of others because they have more wealth, while refusing to act on achieving any progress themselves.

Eh, that's just an example really, but it does link to something of mine, a greedy guy who messes with quiet people but when needed the most seeks help but doesn't help back, >>.

Zombie · Jan 27, 2015

I bet he'll be a very successful business executive.

Dreadwing · Jan 29, 2015

Well, I want to change myself to be better because I got jealous to someone.....

Daffa · Jan 31, 2015

Jealousy can be poison or a motivator. Just use proper dosage ~~as suggested by doctors~~.

Anyway, I sometime have jealousy when comes with terms of achievements, it does motivate a lot.

Wasabee · Jan 31, 2015

Jealousy naturally happens and it may help you build yourself if you use it the right or it may destroy you if you let your jealousy consume yourself. Keep it at bay.

Sometimes I do get jealous over some things but then there are things that is difficult to attain without doing a thing. It's kind of annoying when people are jealous over something yet they are not even exerting some effort.

Hantoo · Feb 4, 2015

I'm Always Jealous of
1. Ability/Skill to do something
2. Anyone Better than me
3. Something I'm Giving Effort worst than something people not giving effort
4. Everyone with skills (Any) that better than me
5. Everything

I Lust for skill
(I'm just being honest here, don't throw me a Bazooka please)

WhiteFang · Feb 4, 2015

Ok
*throws Hayate with a cannon*

I forgot to say what i'm jealous of:Rich People

DD Mikasa · Feb 4, 2015

Well.It is a natural feeling evryone has it.Some have more some less.

When someone has bigger beard that me

Dreadwing · Feb 4, 2015

Archimonde supreme said:
Ok
*throws Hayate with a cannon*

I forgot to say what i'm jealous of:Rich People

Why you get's Jealous to Rich People?

I don't really much care about moneys (But sometimes I really cares abut them), I think my money is more useful to someone really need them (through, I just bought lot of Lego yesterday...) So, I'm often giving my money to peoples...

WhiteFang · Feb 4, 2015

dhika axe said:
Why you get's Jealous to Rich People?

I don't really much care about moneys (But sometimes I really cares abut them), I think my money is more useful to someone really need them (through, I just bought lot of Lego yesterday...) So, I'm often giving my money to peoples...

We are poor.Or where.Before i moved.My life has completely changed since i moved.Life is looking up for me

Dreadwing · Feb 4, 2015

Archimonde supreme said:
We are poor.Or where.Before i moved.My life has completely changed since i moved.Life is looking up for me

I hope I can help you...
and I hope your life is changed in Hiveworkshop....

WhiteFang · Feb 4, 2015

and I hope your life is changed in Hiveworkshop....

Alot,i finally figure out the basics of bb code xD
and i'm no longer raging.

Shadow Fury · Feb 28, 2015

Jealousy is a very bad feeling in my opinion because it makes you feel down and lets you do things you would never imagine to do. I try not to feel jealous in my life to avoid feeling badly. I just try to enjoy what I have and think about the things "I" have and others do not.

Oh so you call jealousy a "motivator"? Yeah, probably a motivator to bad actions, not only good ones. It then depends on what kind of jealousy it is. If it is because of money, it could encourage you to work harder but if it comes to love, jealousy will just motivate you to smash the face of someone else!!!

Hantoo · Feb 28, 2015

Jealousy is a very bad feeling in my opinion because it makes you feel down and lets you do things you would never imagine to do. I try not to feel jealous in my life to avoid feeling badly. I just try to enjoy what I have and think about the things "I" have and others do not.

404 Error the "Things" cannot be found

Daffa · Feb 28, 2015

Shadow Fury said:
Jealousy is a very bad feeling in my opinion because it makes you feel down and lets you do things you would never imagine to do. I try not to feel jealous in my life to avoid feeling badly. I just try to enjoy what I have and think about the things "I" have and others do not.

Oh so you call jealousy a "motivator"? Yeah, probably a motivator to bad actions, not only good ones. It then depends on what kind of jealousy it is. If it is because of money, it could encourage you to work harder but if it comes to love, jealousy will just motivate you to smash the face of someone else!!!

There are always things that you have while others don't. And as always, there's this "there's skies above skies" logic exist as well. No matter how you resist, jealousy will always come, this is a true challenge indeed.

It's about controlling your fist with your calm mind while let the jealousy mind get the work. Using the energies is sort of difficult but if transferred to correct body parts it will help a lot. I have been jealous to at least 1 person related to love, 2 persons related to school grades and many more, yet I never involved in physical fight or such, and I have good relationship with them.
If you don't show the "physic form" of jealousy itself. You're very much okay.

This is my side of view.

Shadow Fury · Feb 28, 2015

Time to fix your error.
Think of the ones that are poorer than you. You have more money than them.
Think about the ones that cannot achieve your grades. You have more intelligence that them.
Think about any small thing you have but others do not, that's the point.

chobibo · Feb 28, 2015

It's better to not think about how superior you are to others, that might develop into hubris.

Daffa · Feb 28, 2015

Your points are good and logical, as well as acceptable. This is not the case with everyone though, sadly. If only people always looks below them, but many usually looks above them instead.

chobibo · Feb 28, 2015

@Daffa: Isn't looking above a sign of perversion? Oh wait... ahaha XD

Daffa · Feb 28, 2015

@chobibo
Please :/

Heinvers · Feb 28, 2015

chobibo said:
It's better to not think about how superior you are to others, that might develop into hubris.

Sometimes that feeling might develop into a plague that makes you blind to others.

You end up looking down on others when it's not the case.
....but I suppose that's just human nature.

Daffa · Feb 28, 2015

In the end, always looking high making you blindly jealous, while always looking low making you blindly disrespectful.
Guess humans are very complicated indeed.

Shadow Fury · Feb 28, 2015

Guys when I said "Think about what you have and others do not" I didn't mean "Feel superior to others!"
What I mean is that you have to enjoy what you have and not mourn about what you don't have when others do.

Wrda · Feb 28, 2015

I've never been jealous to any thing.
You should just appreciate what you have and not cry or begging for more abilities/skills/stuff, face the reality.

Necziaxxus · Mar 1, 2015

Well, I'm jealous of people who can't spell and punctuate properly. You don't have to worry about apostrophes, commas and capital letters. =]

But I do tend to get jealous in relationships. It's natural, though, I suppose.

Cherrymage · Mar 1, 2015

Necziaxxus said:
Well, I'm jealous of people who can't spell and punctuate properly. You don't have to worry about apostrophes, commas and capital letters. =]

But I do tend to get jealous in relationships. It's natural, though, I suppose.

This.

P.S. I sometimes also get jealous when:
1) Someone can properly make a decent model (but I can't even model a cube!)
2) Someone that is more skillful than me..

But I have calm mind. I don't let myself be irrational and consumed by jealousy and hatred.

chobibo · Mar 2, 2015

Yet you hate flatness, what a lie lol. Good one there buddy

EDIT: Ah! I remembered the right word for that! Hypocrisy.

WhiteFang · Mar 6, 2015

But I have calm mind. I don't let myself be irrational and consumed by jealousy and hatred.

Unfortunately i can't claim the same.

Jealousy

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